Divorce Options

By Suzanne Chambers-Yates - May 16, 2024

Initiating a divorce is a profound decision, laden with emotional weight. While filing with the court may seem straightforward, navigating the intricate financial considerations can feel overwhelming.

Regardless of whether you opt for divorcing as self-representation, mediation, collaboration, or legal representation, the core requirements for obtaining a divorce remain consistent.

The option for divorcing you choose and the decisions made during the process can significantly shape your and your children's futures.

Options for Divorce:

Do-it-Yourself (DIY)

You and your spouse reach agreements on property division, spousal and child support, and complete all required paperwork together.

Mediated Divorce

A neutral third-party mediator helps facilitate and resolve all issues required by the court. The mediator guides the couple through the process of reaching agreements without making decisions for them. Typically, this process takes 6-8 weeks, depending on the complexity of the financial situation. Since the mediator cannot provide legal advice, they will recommend consulting with an attorney.

Litigated Divorce

Involves attorneys who prepare for trial. This approach can be costly, starting at $10,000+ per person, and may take over a year to finalize. It often escalates tensions, focusing on winning at any cost.

Collaborative Divorce

Similar to mediation but involves five paid professionals at each meeting (two attorneys, a financial professional, and a collaborative facilitator). While potentially expensive and time-consuming, it offers a more peaceful process compared to litigation.